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August 19, 2005

As many of you know I (Laurie) have entered the world of diapers, strollers and middle-of-the-night feedings again. Most of the time "I'm loving it," but other times I think I'm losing my mind. I don't know about you, but I find myself forgetting things (primarily my children's names). Or I'll go to another room to get something and forget why I'm there. And sometimes thinking of a simple word can bumfuzzle me! And have you ever put something away and then for the life of you, you can't remember where you put it? Please tell me you can relate, or am I just getting old? I prefer to think that it is post-partum brain loss.

Feeling "confused and disoriented" is a common problem, not only for me, but for most moms. A common occurrence in our house that can almost bring me to tears is when everyone needs me at the same time. The baby awakens from his nap, crying because he's hungry. My 5 year old is in the bathroom calling, "Mommy, I neeeeeeed you!" My 8 year old, standing on her head, determined to keep her balance, is breathlessly saying, "Mommy, Mommy look at me, look at me!" At the same time, my 10 year old is asking, "Mom, can I buy these new bracelets off e-Bay because the deal goes off in 5 minutes." Of course, all this is happening while I'm preparing dinner. As I quickly work to put out the various family "fires," I find I've started one on the stove! I've often thought, "If one more person calls my name, I'm gonna scream!" only to hear my husband say, "Honey, have you seen my glasses?"

There are days I think, "Lord, I can't do this . . . I don't even have the energy to try anymore." Some days the challenges of motherhood are too demanding, too overwhelming, too exhausting. Do you feel like giving up? Is your burden too heavy? Are you afraid because you feel out of control? You are not alone. Isaiah 41:10 (The Message) encourages, "I've picked you. I haven't dropped you. Don't panic. I'm with you. There's no need to fear for I'm your God. I'll give you strength. I'll help you. I'll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you." It isn't all up to you. God longs to fill us with His strength if we'll just let Him. It is in recognizing our weakness that we realize God's strength. Isaiah 40:29 says it well. "He gives strength to the weary, and increases the power of the weak."

Just remember when you are out of control, He is in control. Get close to Him. Seek Him, and He'll empower you to handle the challenges that overwhelm you.

Lord, I want to stop trying to do everything on my own. I need You to calm my spirit, to give me strength, to hold me steady. Give me self-control to respond gently instead of reacting harshly, to set loving limits instead of rash rules, to seek to understand before making demands. Lord, I am weak, but You are strong! Thanks be unto God! Amen.

   
   
 
Addison is here!...and is already 3 months old!
  
Addison with Davis Laurie made it back to Texas (after a hospitalization in CA and 2 in CO!) for Addison Andrew Hilliard to be born on May 16 in Sherman, Texas!
He weighed 7 lbs. 1 oz and was 19 1/2" long.

By his 3 month birthday, he's already a whoppin' 15 lbs!

And as you can see, everyone wants to hold him and squeeze him and love him!

(This photo shows Addison with his birthday buddy, cousin Davis, who turned 3 on May 17!)

 
   
   
 
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